Nurturing freedom

I know many of you are enjoying a long holiday weekend, so I promise this will be short. Be prepared to engage your senses.

Close your eyes and imagine one of the following:

  • Your first dorm room or apartment
  • Walking on a beach on a warm sunny day
  • Riding on a motorcycle or in a convertible with top down on a beautiful road
  • A stroll on a forest path with light shining through the trees and the sounds of birds singing
  • Or, travel anywhere (in your mind) that makes you happy.

Stay quiet, breathe deeply, and notice what you feel, smell, see, and hear.


So…. what does this have to do with leadership?

You can nurture a sense of freedom in those who count on your leadership by:

  • Listening even when you really want to talk
  • Letting go of your need to be right
  • Being inclusive in the decisions that impact them
  • Letting them take risks and make mistakes for the sake of learning
  • Stretching them beyond what they think they can do
  • Believing in their potential
  • Telling them what they did well more often
  • Being critical of what they did only when it really matters
  • Being willing to let them do things their way
  • Celebrating success with them

While you are doing these things, notice what happens. Freedom magically stimulates creativity, engagement and productivity. And that impacts you and your organization in a very positive way!

I am a former executive in a Fortune 100 company. I have owned and operated an executive coaching firm since 2003 called Aspire Collaborative Services LLC. We partner with great leaders to help them become even greater at developing, improving, and sustaining relationships with the people who are essential to their success. This blog is for leaders and those who help them to be more intentional about relationships at work. My top personal values include respect for others, kindness, compassion, collaboration and gratitude. I work very hard at practicing my values daily and when I don’t succeed, I practice some more. I am married with two wonderful daughters and two spoiled pugs.