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		<title>Paying Attention</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 12:52:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Mary Jo Asmus</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Daniel Goldman, in his book called &#8220;Social Intelligence&#8221; speaks of the importance of paying attention as one way to build emotional connection, and therefore, empathy. He tells the story of a man collapsing in the subway in New York City during rush hour. You may have guessed &#8211; he was shabby and shirtless. Throngs of [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Daniel Goldman, in his book called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Social-Intelligence-Science-Human-Relationships/dp/055338449X/ref=pd_bbs_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1216040044&amp;sr=1-1">&#8220;Social Intelligence&#8221;</a> speaks of the importance of paying attention as one way to build emotional connection, and therefore, empathy.  He tells the story of a man collapsing in the subway in New York City during rush hour.  You may have guessed &#8211; he was shabby and shirtless.  Throngs of people were passing by, stepping over his body, in a hurry to get home.  Not noticing, and in an &#8220;urban trance&#8221;. </p>
<p>Mr. Goleman stopped to check on the man.  Amazingly, just by taking notice, a remarkable thing happened.  Others stopped too.  It was discovered that the man had collapsed from hunger.  Someone bought a hot dog for him from a street vendor.  Another person got him some water, and yet another called an ambulance.  The man was going to be ok.</p>
<p>This is a powerful story that we can all take to heart &#8211; especially leaders.  As you go about your day, in a &#8220;corporate trance&#8221;, remember to stop and observe.  Take notice.  Provide nourishment for those around you who are hungry to be fed &#8211; with a kind word, some recognition, or simply a brief conversation about something that matters.</p>
<p>What aren&#8217;t you noticing?  Who can use your assistance?  What kind words are needed to feed those around you?
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