Client List

 

 

The International Consortium For Coaching in Organizations

 

 

Professional Coaches Association of Michigan - Member

 

"The result (of work with Aspire) will be a better, more effective leader who makes greater contributions to business, to community, and to people."
~Senior Leader, Fortune 100

 

 

"Mary Jo is one of the state's most respected coaches."
~CEO, non profit

 

 

Archive for the ‘creativity’ Category

From Judgment to Curiosity

William Isaacs, in his classic book called Dialogue, writes that the kind of thought “that applies force to try to make someone be different” is a form of violence. “It imposes from the outside a false logic that creates the violence we see in the world. And it all begins between our ears.” So often in the business world, we see leaders focusing on the differences they perceive:
  • the employee who just doesn’t “fit in”
  • the areas of disagreement with other departments
  • the customers who just can’t understand the products or services

Mr. Isaac states that we must look for coherence first – before we make judgments. This is the art of appreciating the whole, that helps us to learn to inquire into what is, not to constantly produce what we think should be. This kind of wholistic thinking also helps us to see that all of these individuals are a part of our world, and the way they see things makes sense for them – and possibly us as well.

This kind wholistic thinking has the potential to change a divisive situation into curiousity. When a leader follows their curiousity by using inquiry, the possibiliy of creating solutions that are bigger, better, and more collaborative.

When you feel those judgments (“violent thoughts”) bubbling up, be curious:

  • How are these “different” ideas part of a larger whole?
  • How might these ideas serve? What benefit can be derived for my leadership and our organization?

With deliberation and discipline, turning “violent” thoughts into inquiry as a way of opening up to differences can be the beginning of the innovation that most organizations seek today.

Post to Twitter

Beginner's Mind: Seeing the Trees for the Forest

There is a way to cultivate creativity by adopting a “beginner`s mind”.

Knowledge Can Keep Us from Learning

The term “beginners mind” conjures up someone who is open to learning the new, the novel, the interesting, or the unique. The reality is that we are all beginners, every day, within our own area of expertise as well as in all other arenas. The challenge is to remain deliberate about continual learning as if we are beginners.

Most of us have something that we know a lot about. When we know a lot about a topic, we see things about that topic in a way that others don`t. Nuances, details ?€“ we pick up on those, where others may not. Over time, we can acquire the sense of knowing everything. Our depth of knowledge sometimes makes it harder to stay open and learn new things.

Seeing the Trees (Literally)

My husband Ken has lived in the world of trees his entire life. His father had a Christmas tree farm that Ken worked on as he grew up. When I first met him, he worked in a local nursery and started his own landscaping business. For the last 30 years, he`s owned and operated a nursery, supplying the world with trees.

Ken literally sees the trees for the forest. We can be driving along, and he can spot a pear tree at a distance, amongst a stand of other varieties in the winter! If we pull over, he can often teach me a thing or two about trees that will make it easier for me to see a wild pear next time (if I am willing to have a “beginner`s mind”). I admire his continual curiosity about trees ?€“ he is able to maintain a beginner`s mind even after acquiring so much knowledge over the years.

Cultivating a “Beginner`s Mind”

The best leaders may have deep expertise, yet they are able to learn every day. Some suggestions for practicing beginner`s mind:

  • Nurture a beginner`s mind with observation and reflection. Ask: What new things can I learn from others today? What did I learn today that surprised me?
  • Maintain a healthy sense of curiosity. Ask: What details might I be missing? How do the parts relate to the whole?
  • Develop the ability to ask the right questions. Ask: What question, if asked, would shed light on the subject at hand?
  • Remember that there are always new things to learn. Ask: What areas do I need to learn more about? What am I missing?
  • Understand that there is always someone out there who knows more. Ask: Who can I learn from? What do I need to ask them?

It takes some conscious work to keep a learning mindset. Being a beginner is a two-way street. We learn from those around us; they learn from us. When you assume the role of beginner, your followers do too, and that`s the start of an organization that has the potential to be inspired and creative.

Post to Twitter

The Magic of Fostering Creativity in the Workplace

After a long years of attempting to figure out what it takes for leaders to foster creativity, I figured the “key” must be something hidden and magical that leaders had yet to discover.

Places like IDEO and Apple know the secret, but aren’t telling the rest of us, I thought. Surely, there is a secret about what a leader needs to know and do that the vast legions of managers in the workplace don’t know about that releases creativity in employees!

After years of leading, reading, discussing, coaching, and teaching, I can now reveal what I’ve discovered: there is no secret.

The key is that leaders foster creativity when they do what they should do: lead well.

All of the things that you’ve learned about what it means to be a leader go into the magic hat of leadership. You must:

  • promote risk taking;
  • accept (and sometimes celebrate) failure; become comfortable with “not knowing”;
  • suspend judgment of early ideas;
  • encourage diversity of backgrounds beliefs and thought;
  • encourage employees to work in the areas of their strengths;
  • (and the big one that we rarely talk about) provide time, materials and leeway.

    Abracadabra. Wave your magic leadership wand and you’ve set the stage for creativity to occur (which doesn’t mean it actually will; by practicing the points above, you’ve simply “set the stage” for creativity to happen).

    Whew. Surely there is some magic that I, and all the “creativity in the workplace” gurus and consultants have missed?

  • Post to Twitter

    The Importance of Renewal

    I’m back, and what a summer I’ve had! My oldest daughter got married, I took a trip to Taos to spend time writing in an historically creative setting, my husband and I travelled to the shores of Lake Huron (where I discovered the macro lens on my camera – and got crazy with it) and just returned from a short retreat at wonderful Gilchrist with a great client – where we
    retreated apart for two days and got together over dinner for lively coaching and dialog.
    This summer’s “vacations” included some of the most important work I’ll do. Fostering rest, creativity (yes, the photos are mine), friendships, husbandship, love, and even a bit of work (but the best kind – writing and photography) thrown in. Powerful stuff. I recommend it.

    I vow to be more intentional about “retreating” and taking the time I need to rest, knowing that in rest comes renewal. My client and I have already decided to head back out to Gilchrist in November – I’m looking forward to the possibility of great winter snow photos.

    I feel refreshed and renewed. Excited to see what awaits business this fall, how to use the creative juices as I begin working with a new coach on honing my business niche (again). I can’t wait to get back to work (that’s the point, after all!), and use all of this energy.

    Post to Twitter