A CEO Who Cared
I was quite young in my career and my life when I discovered that our CEO was a special human being. At the time, I was working as an assistant to the Vice President of Discovery Research when his manager asked me if I would plan a trip for several VP’s and the company CEO to take our private corporate plane into the USSR for a meeting with several individuals and groups there, up to and including some high level Soviet government officials.
The Cold War between the U.S. and the USSR was thawing and the USSR was starting to break up. The Soviets continued to be wary of outsiders, particularly Americans. But they were open to considering mutual business interests; our company CEO saw an opportunity to create some alliances. I had no idea what I was getting into when planning this trip, and felt a lot of pressure for a successful outcome.
I worked through an intermediary to the USSR that would slice through Soviet red tape and allow only the second-ever private jet into the USSR (after Armand Hammer’s) since the changes in the country started taking place. Complicating the trip was the fact that our company’s leadership had several meetings to schedule once they arrived, so would want to be able to travel from place to place within the USSR via the corporate jet and the Soviet rail system (I learned later that this was a first).
Planning was painful
Planning this trip was a six-month project because at that time, the bureaucracy of the Soviet Union was beyond compare and the USSR was beginning to unravel. Every time I thought we moved ahead on this a little, something came along to knock the timing of the trip back again.
Close to the scheduled date for takeoff, some of the paperwork to allow the entry of the pilots (who were company employees) had been delayed. Even though we had a date for the flight, the Soviet bureaucrats told us not to worry, the paperwork would come through before takeoff.
The morning that our executives were scheduled to fly, the paperwork for the pilots was still not cleared. So off I went to get the CEO out of a meeting to tell him the bad news (you can imagine how much I wanted to do that!). The corporate executives were cleared for entry into the USSR, but the pilots would have to remain behind at the Moscow airport for the entire ten days of the trip.
Care for “The Team”
Upon learning this news, the CEO said to me, “Those damn Russians!” (I still chuckle about his comment today) and said he wouldn’t leave the pilots behind for ten days to languish at the airport. He considered them part of the team. So, I started the trip planning all over again (another six months!). The second time around was a charm and the trip went off without a hitch.
I’ll remember this CEO as a person who thought it was important to treat the pilots as part of the “team”. Several years later, I flew on the corporate jet with the CEO through a harrowing thunderstorm. I observed firsthand the respect he extended to the pilots as we bounced and dipped, and his concern over my own nausea.
For what it’s worth, the CEO enjoyed a long career at our company, and passed away a few years later while still officially in the CEO position. He was so beloved that there were very few employees who didn’t mourn openly the day his death from cancer was announced.
Me too.









It’s amazing how exceptional people influence us without setting out to do so. Thanks for sharing a wonderful story.
Mary Jo –
Great story, one I bet this man’s family would enjoy recalling as well. I am impressed not only by the CEO’s inclusion of the pilots as valuable team members but also of his patience and persistence in making the trip to the USSR.
Wally, thanks. Yes, this man was exceptional, and someone I’ll remember forever.
Becky, your comment brings to mind something I only realized as I wrote the story – he was also patient with me. He could have (but had no right to) become upset with me that the first trip got cancelled the day they were to leave. Another, lesser human being may have done just that.
What a moving story, Mary Jo, and you tell it so well. Thank you for sharing this example of positive leadership so the rest of us could benefit from your experience. My wish is that each of us will leave such a legacy behind.
Thanks Meredith. In these times of so much press about bad CEO’s, I love to tell the stories of the good ones. And there are plenty of them out there!
Leaders like that leave their mark long after they are gone! Thanks for sharing this personal, inspiring story with us
Monica, yes they do! Thanks for your comments.
Great story MJ! The key takeaway from this touchy story is to train people to be servant leaders in your absence, and I am sure it was the CEO’s goal. Better yet, working with these type of leaders does transform one’s thinking, learning, and doing in both spectrums: communal and business. So thanks MJ for sharing this wonderful working experience with us!
I wish there were more bosses like the one you mentioned. He understood that everyone involved in the trip needs to be considered part of the team. He could have acted “privileged” and said who cares about the pilots, they aren’t as important as we are. But he didn’t and showed a certain caliber that seems to be very rare nowadays.
That is a really neat story. Thanks for posting it. I agree with you and a lot of the other posted comments about how many of the most influential people in our lives are those who understand the importance of caring for the individuals. There are far too many people that let a position of leadership go to their head, while there are too few who know how to be true leaders. The key to being a truly great leader is to give service to the one, no matter what their position is.
Mary Jo,
I really enjoyed this story! It was very intertesting time in Russia indeed. It’s great hear about a CEO who cares for his entire team and put the pilots as equals and part of the team. It’s rare these days for executives to care for anybody other than themselves.
Javier, how true it is that when leaders “walk the talk” and set an example, they train others to do so as well. Thanks!
Nathaniel, there are more leaders and managers like this one out there. What if you kept your eyes and ears out and looked for them? Let me know what you find! Really. Thanks for leaving your thoughts!
Brandon, see my respose to Nathaniel. I think the press has jaded us. There are more good leaders out there than you can imagine, who truly embrace service to others. I would like to do more stories and interviews that showcase these types, so let me know when you find them! Thanks for leaving your comments.
Eric, were you, Brandon and Nathaniel in cahoots before you left comments? Really, please look. There are more good leaders out there than we’ve been led to believe! Thanks for stopping by.
All – I believe we get what we look for. If we see good leaders out there, we will find them. I would love to hear from you about what you find.
Great article Mary Jo! One of my favorite bosses was a President who gave me the third degree when I wanted to leave 15 minutes early on a Friday to attend my son’s jazz band concert. He asked for all of the concert details. I thought he was just being annoying, but then he and his wife showed up for the performance. How many Presidents do that? It made my day.